How To Live Freely In A Goal-Obsessed World - Modern Wisdom with Anne-Laure Le Cunff

Anne‑Laure Le Cunff is a neuroscientist, founder, and author. 

We live by unconscious mental scripts. Most of the time, we don’t even realize it, until we wake up and see the life we’re living isn’t what we truly want. So how do we unlearn what no longer serves us and rewire our mind to align with who we really are?

Expect to learn what the problem is when people obsess over finding their purpose, how to know if you’re following your own dreams or someone else’s,  the tactics you can learn to begin unlearning cultural scripts, how to get more comfortable with uncertainty, how to deal with the shame of letting go of busyness and driving toward your purpose, why posture is so overlooked in mental health, how to improve a destructive mindset, and much more…

00:00:00 The Process Of Finding Your Purpose
00:09:03 The Relationship With Humans & Uncertainty
00:20:45 The Usefulness of Liminal Spaces
00:26:43 What is Compensatory Control Theory?
00:37:59 What is Time Anxiety?
00:56:52 Dopamine Loops & Our Sleep-Wake Cycles
01:06:24 Find Out More About Anne-Laure

Feminism Debate - The Diary of a CEO with Deborah France-White, Louise Perry, and Erica Komisa

Has modern feminism betrayed the very women it promised to empower? Deborah France-White (Guilty Feminist), Louise Perry, and Erica Komisar go head-to-head on sexual freedom.

Deborah Frances-White is a bestselling author and host of The Guilty Feminist podcast, Louise Perry is a journalist and author of The Case Against the Sexual Revolution, and Erica Komisar is a clinical social worker, psychoanalyst, and author of books such as, ‘Chicken Little the Sky Isn't Falling: Raising Resilient Adolescents in the New Age of Anxiety’.

In this heated debate, they discuss:

• What casual sex is really doing to women.
• Why relationships are declining.
• The parenting crisis that no one’s talking about.
• Why fewer people are having children.
• How modern dating is affecting female self-worth.

00:00:00 Intro
00:02:14 Introducing the Panel
00:03:28 What Is the Sexual Revolution?
00:10:01 Autonomy, Freedom, and Agency as a Byproduct of the Sexual Revolution
00:14:48 Casual Sex and Hookup Culture
00:30:47 One Sexual Partner for Life
00:33:00 Age of Marriage Increasing Over Time
00:33:40 Emotional Consequences of Sex
00:39:36 Feminists Typically Have Had Trauma
00:43:13 Agency as a Personality Trait
00:47:27 Sex Education in Schools
00:49:19 Female Pleasure
00:51:12 Is Sexual Freedom Making Us Happy?
00:53:36 Feeling Bullied by the Narrative of Freedom
00:57:29 Ads
00:59:32 Manosphere and Tradwives
01:06:55 Do Women Want Men to Be Providers?
01:07:46 Children and Gender Roles
01:12:08 Poor Mothers Looking After Children
01:18:17 The Role Feminism Has Had on Motherhood
01:22:20 Would Steven Take 3 Years Off Work to Raise Children?
01:23:28 Men and Women's Nurturing Hormones
01:27:57 We Can't Be Neutral About Policies
01:30:24 The Narrative That Having Children Is Miserable
01:32:12 Female Guilt
01:33:20 Parenthood and Narcissism
01:41:27 Birth Rates Declining
01:42:51 Traditional Gender Roles
01:48:29 Demonizing Feminism
01:52:38 Link Between Political Stance and Number of Children
01:56:48 Ads
01:58:33 Pornography
02:06:02 Masculine Virtues
02:11:16 Do Boys and Girls Need to Be Parented Differently?
02:12:45 Chivalry
02:13:50 Evolutionary Differences
02:19:05 Quotas in Education
02:21:02 Final Thoughts