13 June 2023

Why Do So Many People Not Want To Have Children? - Modern Wisdom with Malcolm Collins

Malcolm Collins highlights a global demographic crisis, its underlying causes, potential future scenarios, and controversial solutions.

The Demographic Crisis: Scale and Impact

  • Imminent Population Collapse: Korea faces a potential 94% population collapse over the next century, with only 5.9 great-grandchildren for every 100 Koreans at its current fertility rate. Malcolm Collins argues it's likely already "too late" for Korea to reverse this trend as 60% of its citizens are over 40.
  • A Universal Problem (with few exceptions): Not a single society on Earth, except possibly Israel, has managed to achieve prosperity, gender equality, and high levels of education while maintaining a stable population. This suggests a fundamental flaw in the current model of human civilisation.
  • Ignoring the Problem: Many, especially in economic sectors like venture capitalism, acknowledge the problem but choose to "pretend like that's not the case" in their investments, as accepting it would cause the economy and society to stop functioning. There is also a tendency, particularly on the progressive side, to dismiss it by saying "the planet's better without humans".
  • Threat to Diversity: The core concern is not about increasing the world's population, but preventing a "massive collapse in cultural and ethnic diversity". Without intervention, the future could be dominated by a very small number of cultural/ethnic groups.

Causes of Fertility Collapse

  1. Prosperity: Fertility rates typically fall below replacement when a country's average annual income exceeds $5,000 USD. The modern economy effectively "grabs" productive individuals, rewarding them with just enough money to spend their time being productive rather than having children, and draws them into cities where child-rearing is harder.
  2. Gender Equality and Education (Specifically Female): When women gain choice and participate in the economy, they often prioritise economic stability and "having their life in order" before having children. However, the economic system often doesn't allow this until their mid-30s or 40s, by which point their "biological clocks run out".
  3. Collapse of Marriage and Dating Markets: There has been an "absolute collapse of marriage markets". 50% of men aged 18 to 30 are not looking for casual or long-term relationships, indicating a significant check-out from traditional relationships.
  4. The "Urban Monoculture": This is described as a "single sort of cultural group or virus" that erases unique cultural institutions and aligns goals, often promoting "negative utilitarianism" – the belief that human suffering outweighs happiness, making it better if humans don't exist.
    • It's largely associated with the progressive movement, optimising for reducing "in the moment human suffering".
    • It uses new "memetic ideas" that spread rapidly through social media, optimising and reacting quickly to become virulent.
    • A key tactic is "shadow banning" rather than overt persecution; individuals who might deviate from these ideas simply don't get promotions, have papers published less, or are disfavoured by algorithms.
    • This monoculture primarily replenishes its ideological faction by "siphoning children from other often more conservative cultural traditions".
  5. Prioritising Personal Happiness and Status: People increasingly choose not to have children to optimise for personal happiness, broad satisfaction, or their position within local status hierarchies (e.g., travel, luxury goods, social media validation). This is seen as a form of "hedonic pleasure" over "meaning".
  6. Misinformation and Apocalyptic Messaging: "Propaganda" tells people it's fine or even good to have fewer children. Environmental concerns ("climate change") are presented as apocalyptic, discouraging child-rearing.

Groups Resisting Fertility Decline

  • Conservative Religious Groups: Conservative Christian and Jewish groups are identified as the most resistant to "prosperity-induced fertility collapse". They are seen as "the only people on Earth who don't seem to be disappearing".
  • Diverse Nations: Countries like Israel and the US, known for their diversity, show more resistance to fertility collapse compared to ethnic states like South Korea or Iran.
  • "Cultural Hope": Groups with a high level of "cultural hope," where individuals feel their children can "move up within the culture," tend to have higher fertility rates (e.g., Jews in Israel).

Consequences of Deep Population Decline

  • Economic Collapse: The Western economic system is likened to a "pyramid scheme" that relies on exponentially growing worker populations and productivity. A shrinking worker population will lead to an exponential collapse of developed world economies, mass withdrawals from stock markets, and the failure of debt-leveraged systems.
  • Urban Blight: Property values will plummet to near zero, leading to a lack of maintenance and "endless Urban blight".
  • Loss of Cultural and Ethnic Diversity: If current trends continue, the world will see a "massive collapse in cultural and ethnic diversity," resulting in a "bland future racially".
  • Shift in Global Power Dynamics: The world will shift from a system of violent conquest to one where "you win now not through War but with love" – meaning, successful cultures will be those that can motivate their citizens to have and raise children who are dedicated to their cultural group.
  • Political Shifts: Initially, societies might see a "massive shift to the left" as family units atomise, but this will eventually be followed by a "massive shift in the other direction" (conservative) due to the heritability of voting patterns.

Ineffective Solutions

  • Authoritarianism: Banning abortion (e.g., Romania) or restricting access to birth control (e.g., China's current efforts) only leads to temporary increases in fertility, followed by crashes, or more drastic "Handmaid's Tale" scenarios.
  • Financial Incentives: Cash handouts and free childcare have shown only "irrelevant" or "not enough" increases in fertility rates (e.g., Hungary's 1.6% increase for 5% GDP expenditure, China's 0.18% increase despite relaxed COVID lockdowns).
  • Mass Immigration: While often seen as a solution, it's argued that this "cheat code" only works if immigrant-origin countries (primarily Africa) remain "desperately poor". Furthermore, first-generation immigrants' fertility rates typically collapse in developed countries (e.g., 1.7 in the US), requiring continuous, unsustainable importation.
  • Ethnic States: Paradoxically, prosperous countries with the lowest fertility rates are often ethnic states (e.g., South Korea).

Proposed Solutions and Cultural Experimentation

  • New Cultural Solutions: The real solution lies in finding "new cultural solutions" that allow for the maintenance of fertility rates alongside education, gender equality, and prosperity.
  • Cultural Experimentation: This involves both "fortifying our traditional cultures to be more resistant to the new threats" and "inventing new cultures that work" with modern technology and strategies. Malcolm's own family exemplifies this by adopting unique traditions, moral frameworks, naming conventions, and dressing styles.
  • Integrated Gender Equality: One proposed model for gender equality is couples "doing everything together" – writing books, running companies, and raising children collaboratively.
  • Rebuilding Dating Markets: Experimenting with "new types of dating apps" or even "recreate the London season" with rules that make "low switching cost between partners" harder, to address the collapse of dating.
  • Community-Based Child-Rearing: Projects like "Project Eureka" – towns for single mothers and others to co-raise children – are suggested as "social technologies" that could offer support.
  • Reprogramming Status: While cautious about encouraging narcissism, there's potential to model "having lots of kids as a high status thing" in popular media.
  • Prioritising Meaning over Hedonism: Society needs to shift from optimising for "personal happiness" and "status" (often superficial) to pursuing the "deeper kind" of contentment and meaning that humans are biologically programmed to find in having children.

Genetic Selection and Future Technologies

  • Embryo Genetic Sequencing: Malcolm and his wife used full genetic sequencing of their embryos (via IVF) to inform the order of implantation, aiming to lower the probability of their children inheriting conditions like cancer, major depressive disorder, and migraines.
  • "Reproductive Choice" vs. Eugenics: He argues this is a family's "reproductive choice" (like Orthodox Jews screening for Tay-Sachs) and that Eugenics is defined by the state dictating genetic choices. He envisions a future of "blossoming of human diversity" where families select traits aligning with their cultural values, not a single "Aryan" ideal.
  • Accessibility: Genetic sequencing is becoming "tremendously inexpensive," potentially costing "50 cents a family and maybe like fifty dollars per egg that's sequenced," making it widely accessible, especially with state support for IVF.
  • In Vitro Gametogenesis (IVG): This technology, which creates eggs and sperm from any cell, could allow biological children for older individuals or "poly couples".
  • Artificial Wombs: Near-future technology that could completely transform child-rearing and further expand cultural options.
  • Ethical Considerations: While controversial, he posits that long-term ethical choices involve pre-birth selection or gene editing to avoid a future where every human is a "walking ball of cancer" due to unchecked dysgenic pressures. He accepts that some groups may reject this technology, and "the future will prove which group is right and wrong".

The video stresses that humanity is at a crucial juncture, facing an "existential risk" that demands bold cultural and technological experimentation rather than relying on past assumptions or ineffective policies.