Derek Sivers is an entrepreneur, author, and speaker. Tony Robbins once famously asked, “How can the worst thing that ever happened to you become the best thing?” This highlights the power of reframing. By changing your perspective on life events—whether they’re objectively true or not—what matters is their usefulness. If a perspective serves you positively, it works, and that’s the real power of perspective. Expect to learn how you can reframe your perspective for the better, what the term ‘Useful Not True’ means, why your thoughts cannot be trusted nor should you believe each one that pops into your head, why people don’t bond over facts but rather perspectives, how to not become discouraged if you are thrown off course, how to make better decisions and make the best choice possible and much more...
00:00:00 Useful But Not True
00:06:41 Why is Reframing Important?
00:13:08 Derek’s Car Accident
00:23:11 We Bond Over Our Perspectives
00:28:29 Is it Right to Sometimes Break the Rules?
00:36:35 Your Own Thoughts Are Untrue
00:47:28 Evaluating Beliefs Fuelled By Emotion
00:55:39 Judge the Content & Not the Box
01:06:05 The Value of Diverse Worldviews
01:17:30 How to Better Reframe Your Experiences
01:32:22 Are These Tools Universally Useful?
01:41:46 Our Desire to Be Perfect Immediately
01:48:25 You Are What You Pretend to Be
02:01:37 Where to Find Derek