https://lifehacker.com/these-questions-will-improve-your-relationships-1820517894
The Four Unspoken Questions in Every Relationship
The core learning point is that in every interaction, from casual acquaintances to romantic partners, people are unconsciously asking four fundamental questions seeking acknowledgment and affirmation. These questions, attributed to Maya Angelou, form the foundation of what makes a good relationship feel good. The four questions are:
- Do you see me?
- Do you care that I'm here?
- Am I enough for you, or do you need me to be better in some way?
- Can I tell that I'm special to you by the way that you look at me?