24 October 2020

Seven tips for parenting teen boys: 'Nagging them is like shouting into a void'

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/oct/10/seven-tips-for-parenting-teen-boys-nagging-them-is-like-shouting-into-a-void

Parenting teenage boys can be a challenging experience, but it's important to remember that their often difficult behavior is a phase and that underneath it all, they are vulnerable and seeking understanding. Biological and psychological changes, including surges of testosterone and brain development, contribute to their emotional volatility and risky behavior. Here are seven tips to help you navigate this stage:

1. Don't Shame Them

Avoid shaming your teenage son for his choices. Understand that his behavior is often a phase and that shaming him will only make things worse.

2. Educate Them About Their Development

Talk to your son about the hormonal and brain changes he is experiencing. This will help him to understand that he is not "stupid" and that what he is going through is normal.