1. Sadia Khan's Background and Motivation
Sadia Khan is a relationship coach who previously taught psychology and holds a master's in psychotherapy and education. She began posting relationship advice online about a year ago after noticing a "gap of understanding in the market" and feeling that many podcasts were teaching "the wrong things" by pitting men and women against each other. She couldn't comprehend the anger and hostility or how it could benefit people, aiming to debunk the "Zeitgeist to just kind of hate the opposite gender".
2. Critique of Online Relationship Advice and Division
Online platforms thrive on content that divides men and women, often driven by clickbait and appealing to vulnerable or "broken and hurt" individuals who are more likely to share and engage. Many young people lack real-life relationship experience and use the internet as a "template for relationships". This division is often a "trauma response" stemming from low self-esteem, where people reject what they fear will reject them to defend their ego (e.g., "men are trash" as an excuse not to work on oneself for a positive relationship). Shared hatreds are more cohesive than shared loves, providing an incentive for creators to polarise. Most creators aim for popularity and to sell something, not necessarily to heal.