29 August 2024

The Dating Doctor: "Start Dating Like It's Your Job!" - The Diary of a CEO with Dr Orion Taraban

Dr Orion Taraban is a psychologist, host of the podcast ‘PsychHacks’, and the author of the book, ‘The Value Of Others: Understanding the Economic Model of Relationships to Get (and Keep) More of What You Want in the Sexual’.

00:00:00 Intro
00:02:27 The Relationship & Sex Crisis
00:04:50 How The Relationship Crisis Is Affecting Us
00:06:56 Common Problems Men Are Facing In Modern Relationships
00:07:45 Are Dating Apps Really Helping?
00:08:20 The Crisis Of Masculinity: What Men Are Going Through
00:09:10 How Gender Dynamics Have Shifted Over Time
00:11:35 Andrew Tate And The Rise Of Performative Masculinity
00:15:46 Why Men Need To Feel Needed In Relationships
00:18:03 The Unique Challenges Women Face In Today's World
00:18:54 My Professional Journey: What Led Me Here
00:20:02 Understanding The Problems Both Men And Women Face
00:22:08 Applying Business Strategies To Improve Relationships
00:24:57 Why Women Seek Marriage: A Deeper Look
00:27:59 Helping Men Improve Their Lives And Relationships
00:30:27 How To Increase Your Attractiveness
00:31:46 The Importance Of Surface Marketing In Dating
00:34:41 How To Get Better At Meeting Women
00:36:54 Tips For Men To Boost Their Attractiveness
00:37:33 How Men Should Communicate Effectively
00:41:15 Why You Don’t Need Money To Attract Women
00:42:09 How I Completely Transformed My Life
00:44:35 Tips On Keeping A Partner Long-Term
00:47:08 Why A Relationship's First Crisis Is Crucial
00:49:33 Why The Top 10% Of Men Are Having The Most Sex
00:51:31 Is A Relationship An Exchange Of Value?
00:54:32 How Our Communities Have Evolved Over Time
00:57:14 Why Absence Can Be A Recipe For Better Sex
00:59:24 Is Monogamy Natural? Exploring The Debate
01:00:51 Is Gold Digging Just Another Transaction?
01:05:23 Why Men Are Terrified Of Women
01:07:56 What Really Happens To Beautiful People?
01:10:24 How To Turn A No Into A Yes
01:14:25 The Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Attracting Women
01:16:26 The Most Effective Pickup Line I’ve Used
01:19:00 How To Handle Interactions With Very Attractive Women
01:22:25 Should Women Make The First Move? Here’s How
01:25:51 What Is Love? Understanding This Complex Emotion
01:29:57 The Impact Of Porn On Modern Relationships
01:31:50 The OnlyFans Phenomenon: What It Means For Relationships
01:35:16 Libido, Sex, And The Role Of Pornography
01:39:52 How To Change A Man's Behavior For The Better
01:46:32 Advice For Those Struggling To Find Love
01:50:03 How AI Will Change Relationships Forever
01:55:17 How To Be A Man In 2024: Key Insights
01:59:53 Is Being Selfish The Key To Happiness?
02:01:40 Dr. Orion's Selection Criteria Explained
02:08:15 The Most Important Thing We Haven’t Discussed
02:16:52 The Final Question Every Guest Must Answer